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slothcake  

25 YEARS OLD AND TEETH ROTTING/EXTREME PAIN!

I'm only 25...and my teeth are completely rotting out of my head. I am NOT meth addict and never have been but when I open my mouth to smile, I'm sure that is what everyone thinks. This is why I don't smile. I'm completely mortified. My doctor said that it happened when I was pregnant and breastfeeding. Apparantly it happens to some women. I breast fed for a year and after that my teeth just fell apart and so i spent every last dime i had to fix them. It totaled about 9 thousand dollars...two years later, and they are in WAY worse condition than when it all started. I am in incredible amounts of pain. I can't eat anything that isn't soft because my teeth just break off and besides, the pain is unbearable. I don't know what to do. I'm a single Mom. My job involves a lot of talking and looks are also very important...I do my best to hide it, but I am just miserable. I can't afford to fix anything. I need an entire mouth reconstruction,but how will I ever get that? I can barely afford to take care of my son, let alone dental work. I'm in so much pain that I just want to give up. The only reason I havent given up is because of my son. He keeps me going. He has nobody but me...and I don't want people thinking that his mother is some gross meth addict when they look at her. I'm so embarrassed. If I could just get the front ones fixed....then maybe I could pull the others until i can afford to do something else...I dont know....I'm scared. I have nothing to offer anyone. Does anyone know of any dentist that are doing any pro bono work? I need help. I'm barely functioning. I'm losing weight because I can no longer eat solid foods. This wasnt supposed to happen to me. I'm in my 20's. How could this happen? I'm an attractive 25 year old female single mother of one...in AMERICA! I don't live in some third world country and my teeth are rotting out of my head to the point where I can't live my life normally. What am I supposed to do? I cry every day. I go through one or two tubes of orajel a day and insane amounts of tylenol just tot get through it. I see why people get addicted to pain killers in this kind of a situation...If I had access I probably would be too. I'm so sad...I feel hopeless and I don't know how much longer I can live in this much pain and embarrassment. It is too much to handle. It has been over a year and a half now. Every single day the pain has worsened and now I am to the point of breaking. Im here in hopes of finding something, anything, that can help me so that I don't end up with a pair of pliers in my laundry room ripping my own teeth out of my head and then ending up walking around at 25 years old with no teeth in my head and never being able to get a job, meet a decent partner, or smile in pictures with my son...I just want to feel like the smiling happy me that I was before this happened to me....I want to smile without covering my mouth. It's so bad....I never thought this would ever be something I would have to worry about. Please help me...PLEASE!
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Cassie Minor  

SC Medical University offers emergency dental clinic

The Medical University of South Carolina (Charleston) offers an emergency clinic. Generally, fees at dental schools are usually 1/3 to 1/5 the usual and customary fees in the area. You can find more information here and below. In addition, other treatments are available at the school for much lower cost. Learn how to become a patient.

 

FROM MUSC WEBSITE:

Emergency Care

The College of Dental Medicine has an emergency “walk in” clinic for both assigned and non assigned patients. Patients are seen in the Oral Medicine Clinic (First Floor, Room 119) Monday through Friday at 8:45 AM or 12:45 PM with the exception of Tuesday mornings. The phone number to the Emergency Dental Clinic is (843) 792-2101, option 1. College of Dental Medicine patients that need to be seen after hours for emergencies can call (843) 792-2123 and ask for the dental resident on call.

If you are experiencing severe pain, swelling, or any life threatening situations, please call 911 or present to the nearest Medical Emergency Room. Rendering of emergency care in no way obligates the College of Dental Medicine to assume responsibility for further treatment. If additional care is indicated following emergency treatment, patients must follow the usual screening procedures to qualify for comprehensive care.

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JamieLynn0625  

Finally on the right track....In Need Of Dental Help/Advice (anything I dont know what to do)

I am a 21 years old with atleast 3 teeth that i know for a fact need pulled i just recently have had a really bad gum infection that made the whole side of myand alot more other that need i face swollen up causing me so much pain that it was hard for me to even get out of bed in the morning. And im so scared that if i dont get immediate attention really soFinon ill ha to have to loose all of my teeth and I'm finally happy with where im at with my life and its time to take care of me...And for about three years now I have been dealing with really bad dental problems. While pregnant with my 4 year old little girl I had real low Iron and had to take iron pills. Well the Iron deficiency made my teeth really brittle and at the time i didnt realize what all the sugar filled drinks were doing to them. well now i no longer have any insurance what so ever and i just feel like when i call places to set up an appointment they look at me like im lower of a person than if i was somebody with dental insurance. I just need some help if theres anybody in the dayton area that could give me some advice or even numbers of places that could help me i would really greatly appreciate it...God bless all
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spiccolo315  

About spiccolo315

I am a 29 year old female who struggled with an eating disorder for a large portion of my life. I finally conquered those deamons but as a result my teeth are a disaster. I have many missing teeth, broken, fallen out and decayed ones. I have no insurance and it seems like every mos I am having to spend a fortune at the ER just to get an anti biotic to kill the infection. I want to be able to smile with all that I have been through but am in constant pain and discomfort as a result. My last visit to the er was a result of an abcess that caused my face to blow up and keep me in the ER for 3 days because they didn't want the infection to go to my brain. It's very scary.

I have no insurance to speak of and can not afford to visit a dentist. Even if I did have insurance the cost of the things I need to get done is to high. I know in my heart that I am beautiful, but with all this pain and ugly smile I hate myself more and more each day. I am doing research and seeing if there aren't any pro bono dentists in the area of Saratoga Springs, NY. Please help me....It would mean the world to me. spiccolo315@hotmail.com

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Cassie Minor  

Thoughts from the free clinic

I am working a free clinic this weekend and wanted to share some of my experience. Unfortunately, it's been a little cold and wet, yet people stood for hours to get care. We begin treatment in our clinics at 8am, but people were waiting at 1am. For hours they have stood in the cold and rain, hungry with feet hurting. As I walked down the line to offer encouragement, my heart cried. Dental pain is one of the most horrific pains (I've given birth to four kids) you could experience. I wonder why things can't be different. I've been on the road for years working for free because that is how much I believe in what I am doing. My family of six has cut costs by sharing a one bedroom so that we could 'afford' to lose my salary. Yes, things are getting better, a lot better in dentistry. Many of us believe we have a responsibility to those in our communities and are working to make sure they receive care. Yet I am still in a corner crying as I see suffering. For those that believe people with dental problems should take better care of their teeth, be careful what you judge. By grace, it's not you. For those of you in pain, know that people want to change that and are trying very hard. I was born into dental ignorance and I haven't forgotten from where I came.

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GANG3  

hard to be productive

This Is Not fun for any of us, Each new story I read Normalizes The Story Before it , What a shame this many people ,And A Lot more for sure have to suffer like this, In alot of country`s this would be unheard of, But Here we are looked down on if we are not healthy, Some minor things can make people very ill if left untreated also.I Have in the past wanted to die just because of tooth pain. And live this way daily. Really hard to stay productive when you live in so much pain. And pain alot of people have no idea about ,If they have dental insurance or some at least a job to pay.

I HAD NO WORRIES WHEN I HAD BOTH INSURANCE AND A GOOD JOB.Never thought today would ever come for me either.

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Cassie Minor  

NC MACT needs you and can help you

  NC MPACT NEEDS YOU ! 

NC MPACT will have to temporarily close due to funding needs unless people act now.

 Who Can Benefit From the MPACT Website?

People in need of dental care without dental insurance or the ability to pay for services.

People with dental insurance and the financial ability to pay for care.

People that would like to learn more about oral health.

People that are not dental professionals, but would like to help.

Community leaders that would like to make sure all people can get dental care.

Dental professionals that take personal responsibility for the oral health of their communities and desire to make a difference in oral health care access.

Dental professionals concerned about universal-type population coverage.

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Albadesol  

Dental Assistance

Still in need of dental assistance. Have infections in my mouth for some time.  I am a diabetic and it is important that I get dental assistance as my blood sugar is out of control. I can go into a diabetic coma and die.  I did get a doctor to prescribe antibiotics again.  This is only a temporary fix and than my blood sugar its worse each time. Hve been dosing of driving home from a sub job.  I am getting the tooth extracted but can't afford the bridge and crowns.  Also have a hole in another bridge and it needs to come out and fix the other tooth. tan need another crow on another bad cavity.  Can't understand why the dentical dentis told me I didn't have any cavities and only cleaned my teeth. The dentical doctors didn't do anything for me but allowed this to worsen. I do have pain in my mouth for some time in several areas. I also am a single widow and having financial problems, mortgage etc. Times are hard and barely buying groceries.  Please someone have a caring heart and help a widow in need. God bless you for your help. Suzanne

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HavingHope  

About HavingHope

I am 29 years of age in NJ. I have had several health, emotional and mental issues in the past. Due to Meds, and other health problems and lack of money I have very poor teeth. Decay, loss, broken, you name it. I am in pain almost every day and I can't chew certain foods anymore. I often try and almost choke because I can't chew properly. I have tried getting on a list for a dental school who says they will call you back. I tried them twice, had xrays and exams and its been years. No call. No go. I have looked for low income dentisty with no luck.

I am not working because half the time I am either in pain or have other medical problems that I cannot deal with an d affect me. It affects me daily and I can't think or function properly. I have other health issues making it even harder to work. I have applied for disability in the past and have not been able to get it.  I am tryingso hard to change my life around and all I want is to be pain free. Even if it means walking around with no teeth. I literally pull my ahir out and feel like I am going insane from pain. I need help but somehow I can't find it anywhere. If anyone has any ideas or suggestions please help!!

 

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chanelj  

Another post from a painful Canadian.

I have noticed that most people and all information pertaining to this page is dedicated to those in the USA. Does it matter that I am in Canada. I still need help desperately and havn't seen such a great website better yet, a website forum at all.

 

I hope this doesn't matter, we all suffer with the same issues and pain and need help. I was just wondering if i still qualify 

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NancyMcGuire  

How to Earn Money by Referral's

Many of you are asking about the Referral Program for Smiles For Less

You get paid $50.00 cash per referral

Referral Rules:

The person giving us the referral must send us the following to be eligible: Name, Telephone number, and E-mail information of the person they are referring as well as thier own Name and mailing address and telephone number.

We spend a lot of time with each person before they go and on the trip which is usually 2-4 days long.  The person that goes to the dentist is who tells us how they heard of us and that is put in thier file. 

We ask everyone we take if anyone referred them.  Sometimes they don't remember the name of the person they spoke to and that is okay because we match up the referrals sent to us by the person doing the referral.

If you refer one person and his/her whole family decided to go but you only really talked to one person from that family.  You only get credit for the person you talked to.  If that person talks to his/her relatives and gets them interested and they go he/she is entitled to the credit. 

Now if you are smart and get a referral's information and he/she gives you names, telephone numbers, and e-mail information on other members of his family or friends that might go and you send me that information YOU would get the $50.00 per person of whoever goes to the dentist. 

As long as you provided the information to us we'll know you referred them.  E-mail the information to us at: Smilesforless@email.com in the subject line of your e-mail in caps name your referral (SMILES-REFERRAL) We will e-mail you the status of the person you referred as follows: No contact, Not interested, Possible, Finance, or Helped.

(No contact)= means you should check the information you sent us because we can not get in touch with them.    

(Not interested)=means they we contacted them and do not want to be bothered.

(Possible)=means they are still thinking about it and/or in the process of making the plans with us.

(Finance)=means they are having problems getting the financing.  You are welcome try and help if you can.

(Helped)=means they have gone and you will or have already gotten paid $50.00

When you want to check the status of someone you referred Please put the Subject as (REFERRAL STATUS) and email us at smilesforless@email.com which is our corporate office e-mail and our other e-mail address smiles@smilesforless.com is what we use for most of the preliminary work we do. Always if you have any questions you can contact me at 850-225-6516.  Sincerely, Nancy McGuire

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jeremy11  

im living in pain

Hi , My names jeremy, im a 26 yr old father of 1 with 1 on the way. i need help all my top teeth are severly rotted and cause immense pain. I work at a resteraunt making 7.00 a hr and cant afford any more bills than i already have with the baby on the way. Can someone please help.

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